Is my certainty for real?
I suppose I should give a bit more background after my last disastorous post. I thought a long time about what he had said and realised a few things.
Firstly he was saying this in response to MY husband writing to him. My husband is the last person he is going to express any interest in me to. And secondly his words could be taken to be as those of a man trying to convince himself.
Anyway... after those words, we went up and visited him for a weekend in September, about a month after he had visited us in August. There was no awkwardness or anything, but he was always a lot more affectionate when my husband wasn't around... for obvious reasons.
*post aborted due to something now forgotten*